Generally, the rubbish of all sorts is that
we doubt. Like, “Am I doing it right?”, after beginning the task. The task is
also bound to be failure because of the excessive doubt we had while doing the
task.
This false fearing, I think is present in
all sorts of individuals. If a person is suffering from the feeling of
inferiority then doubts his own talent, himself. If he is a confident person
with a pinch of superior air around him, then he simply doubts others’ talents.
If a person is introverted, he doubts the others’ feedback about him. If he is
extroverted, then he doubts the effects of his uncompromising, sometimes rash
style.
Now,
coming to the title discussion that is central to this article, “Those Mystical
False Assurances” represents the natural relationship between people and the false assurances they sometime or the other, try to make use of.This can be adopted in technical situations also very relevantly.By
doing so, one can escape the ill effects of chronic doubting (particularly in
oneself) to some extent.
Instances:
Number one:
I am preparing for my examination.
Suddenly, a great doubt creeps into my mind, “Am I really going to perform
well?”The time available to me starts leaking away unnoticed in my thinking
this way, and I finally end up with exactly what I expect. How could I avoid
this? By incorporating a simple thought in me that, “No, I can write the exam
well. I will get very high marks. After all, the subject is just the same
difficult for me as it is for others.”
Number two:
My technical communication professor asked
me to give a surprise oral presentation. Luckily, I know many things about the
topic. But, as soon as I enter the stage, I suddenly see all demons and devils
sitting in front of me! I become fully confused and God knows what happens
next. What could I have done, instead? I could have thought, “I shall speak
very well. All these audience shall receive me very well. Of course, I am
providing all of them with valuable information.”
The above two instances are followed by
many other situations we generally come across. Each has its own solution.
There is an enchanting (and well known
even) quotation in Sanskrit;
य़द्भावम् तद्भवति।
(Yadbhaavam Thadbhavathi) that means
“What you think will happen.”
Finally, I want to emphasize that this
sieve of false assurances will be highly useful only at the starting point of
any task. Once our work is half spoilt and once our speech is half disturbed,
the chances of success further, will diminish.
Hence, making a point to create a
wonderful, comfortable atmosphere around us prior to every important task we
perform lets us pass out with flying colors.
The recent Hindi movie song line, “ALL IS
WELL” indeed fits here well.
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Wonderful analysis.
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